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Cinderella who? When we’re little, we read about men on big horses sweeping in to the rescue, or simply about having everything we could dream. While the fairy tales (and Prince Charmings) might not be real, it is possible to ‘have it all’—but first we must define what ‘all’ means.
Well…it could be work, a partner, children, adventure, cute clothes, a happening social life, faith—you name it. ‘All’ is different for each of us—and its meaning can change over time. When I was having the ‘all’ that college offered me, I wasn’t interested in being a mom or wife. Back then I just wanted to be a great athlete, cool friend, and successful in school. Then I became a professional athlete and my ‘all’ shifted more to performance, and now of course, it has changed again. ‘Having it all’ today means my children, husband, work, friendships, being of service—and when I can, fitting in some fun and adventure. Having it all doesn’t mean life is perfect, of course: Some days I feel like a champion and other times I barely have the dragon by the tail. I juggle like everyone, but I’m still having a ball.
Here’s what I’ve learned, and how you can strive for balance, too:
Realize ALL is Never Perfect
Perfection is actually the messiness of being human and living life. It’s OK to have your own kind of beautiful.
Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
Do life your way. Ask yourself what makes you happy, and then define your ‘all’ by where you are in your journey.
Guard Your Exercise Time
My husband and three daughters know I defend my workout time like a beast. And it’s far from selfish: I do it so I can be a more effective human. Exercise makes me think more clearly, and I become a better mother and wife, as well as a more productive professional. What’s more, when there are upside-down days, I know I’ve done at least one thing right. Find the time to exercise and make it a priority; health will serve you no matter where you are in life.
What does “all” look like for you? Join the conversation below!
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Gabby Reece
World-renowned athlete, New York Times bestselling author, wife, and mother. Gabrielle Reece is a former professional beach volleyball player and was Nike’s first female spokeswoman. She has a passion for healthy living and fitness, which has shaped her career and makes her a popular leader in the world of health and wellness.
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